I am dating a nice guy, but I AM feeling a big BUT here.
I don't know why. Something just doesn't feel right about all this for me. I can't put my finger on it. You would think after dating him exclusively for for five months, my opinion would change. The sex life is so-so, not fantastic. There are things he wants me to do that he won't do for me! (I've discussed this with my doctor and he suggests that I don't do these things, either!)
I am entrepreneurial, motivated, driven and focused. He is not. He is semi-retired and has a great (according to him) pension.
I have a big problem with any man or woman who expects a partner to perform any act (even if it only involves hanging curtains) that they are unwilling to do in return.
No. No. No!
Both parties in a relationship should be treating the other person as they'd like to be treated themselves.
If something doesn't feel right, guess what? It probably isn't right. You're entrepreneurial, and your comment about this guy's "great (according to him) pension" indicates that you're not thrilled with his lifestyle. So why twist your own arm into continuing the relationship?
You say he's a nice guy, but how nice is he really when he expects you to do things for him that wouldn't even consider doing for you?