I completely agree with this report from The Today Show (it's worth watching if you can put up with the 30-second commercial before it starts).
Nothing kills romance faster than a partner who doesn't keep up with his or her share of the housework.
A woman I know and love recently married a man who's lived on his own for many years. She moved into his house, but she's taken on all the household chores: the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, everything.
I can't imagine why. You figure the guy cleaned the toilet once or twice since he moved out of Mommy and Daddy's house.
I'm not necessarily blaming him, either. Why did my friend assume the housework? Did he ask her to? Or she she take it upon herself.
They've only been married two months, and she already resents it. Resentment is a passion-killer.