A certain guy I have been friends with for many years approached me and told me he is interested in me, and that he cares about me. He said with time, he surely hopes something will materialize. He said he is a serious guy and wants a serious relationship, but he indicated "soon."
Am a little confused as to what he is thinking.
He calls now and again, sends emails and texts and sometimes he goes quiet. When he sees me chatting with another guy he gets jealous.
What should I do? Please help.
-A Tenderheart in Need of Guidance
Keep chatting with other guys, not to make this one jealous, but because you're not involved with him and have every right to enjoy the company of other men.
If he truly wants something to "materialize" between you, well, then shouldn't he see to it that it does? What is he waiting for?
You say you're confused as to what he's thinking. Guess what? It's not your job to figure out what he's thinking. It's his job to communicate it to you. Keep your responses to his texts and emails brief and to the point. If he "goes quiet," don't attempt to contact him.
He said cares about you and wants a relationship. Let him prove it. Until then, have fun and keep moving. If he ends up losing you, he'll have nobody to blame but himself.