tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post8405811410973567440..comments2023-07-03T05:28:29.391-04:00Comments on Dating Advice (Almost) Daily: He Won't Marry Her, and She's EmbarrassedTerryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-60739859198231051222008-07-27T14:32:00.000-04:002008-07-27T14:32:00.000-04:00Great advice T - as usual. Years ago I tuned into ...Great advice T - as usual. Years ago I tuned into your pearls and guess what ... I am happily married to a man who is perfect for me. What you are talking about - works BIG time!<BR/><BR/>Thanks! VivAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-85012727808924126632008-07-23T21:49:00.000-04:002008-07-23T21:49:00.000-04:00Love your advice... between this site and SingleS...Love your <A HREF="http://www.singlesisterhood.com" REL="nofollow"> advice</A>... between this site and SingleSisterhood.com, I don't think I could date if it wasn't for dating advice. I know I am bad at it and not original and quiet and shy... but with all this advice i've learned to speak up to gain that confidence I lack and to go out there and just giver' so to speak.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-41162500929364296722008-07-23T18:14:00.000-04:002008-07-23T18:14:00.000-04:00Do NOT bring up the subject of marraige again (let...Do NOT bring up the subject of marraige again (let him wonder about your about face). That's right, get involved with your job, friends, others, and HAVE FUn. If this makes you less available to him, oh well, what's he going to do to motivate you to want to spend time with him? Also, it's been over 2 years...that's long enough for a grown man to know his own mind regarding relationships..he's not a teenager. If it were me, I would tell him that you have no desire whatsoever to pressure him, however, since one of your goals is to marry, you need to keep your options open and date others. And don't sleep with him or anyone else while you're investigating your options. He will either rise to the occasion, or you'll meet someone who is decisive in his relationships. You have to be tough in a gentle way. This will increase your confidence which will cause him to view you in a different light. Remember though, you're doing this for YOU, to keep your life FUN and in YOUR control...not to make an impression on him. He's got no right to be so certain about you at this point...he's got to earn it. You've been more than patient.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18070080245108019108noreply@blogger.com