tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post6279577977150182920..comments2023-07-03T05:28:29.391-04:00Comments on Dating Advice (Almost) Daily: Dating for Two Years, She Doesn't Know if She Should Marry HimTerryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-57473300811261164692009-03-06T12:52:00.000-05:002009-03-06T12:52:00.000-05:00I forgot the link, here it is:http://theuncommonse...I forgot the link, here it is:<BR/>http://theuncommonsenseplanet.blogspot.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-85764014591625954532009-03-06T12:51:00.000-05:002009-03-06T12:51:00.000-05:00it might bit an off topic but here a more insight ...it might bit an off topic but here a more insight about the fakeness of men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-48768868677170276852009-03-06T12:19:00.000-05:002009-03-06T12:19:00.000-05:00Claudia, Viveca, and Ronnie- I appreciate your per...Claudia, Viveca, and Ronnie- I appreciate your perspectives on this one. Thank you!Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-42310801568923315792009-03-06T11:36:00.000-05:002009-03-06T11:36:00.000-05:00Oh, I have to chime in here!I too had a relationsh...Oh, I have to chime in here!<BR/><BR/>I too had a relationship with a man for two years ... For me, it was all about the 3 As ... acceptance, accommodation, and allowance (on my part.)<BR/><BR/>One of my favorite roles in relationships, besides "martyr," used to be "Nurse Nightingale." Bring me your weary, dispondent, chronic, confused, huddled masses of men ...<BR/><BR/>Thankfully I was released from this relationship. (I'm making a very long, 2-year story, short.)<BR/><BR/>From here I pursued a degree in L-O-V-E and got my degree when I married a man who is perfect for me and wrapped around my finger in the best of ways.<BR/><BR/>Terry was one of my awesome coaches (and still is.) Her input is spot on and kind. I appreciate that.<BR/><BR/>For anyone else in Happy Girl Musing Land who is being "nice" and staying stuck, please listen into an interview I did with the authors of a book called "Anxious to Please."<BR/>You can hear a snippet of it here: http://www.getreadyforlove.com/nicegirls <BR/>You get the entire interview when you register for the Get Ready For Love NEWS.<BR/><BR/>Finally, to "Not Sure" I respect you and your choice - whether to stay or to leave. I encourage you to be true to yourself. You know what to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-47384871941484125382009-03-06T09:48:00.000-05:002009-03-06T09:48:00.000-05:00Terry,That was a tough question and as I have seen...Terry,<BR/>That was a tough question and as I have seen, time and time again - you provided excellent advice. Pointing out her issues versus her reasons for staying probably helped her tremendously. Sometimes we just need a sounding board to get clear and you are one of the very best for this type of situation!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-35595491842092105922009-03-05T12:06:00.000-05:002009-03-05T12:06:00.000-05:00WEll I dunno, I can as usual only say what I would...WEll I dunno, I can as usual only say what I would do. I would move on to greener pastures.<BR/><BR/>Actually I've been with the most amazing man for years now and am still take delight at how many wonderful men there are out there. If he decided he needed to divorce himself from me I know I would be sad for a bit but would soon be enjoying my single life again.<BR/><BR/>Still now everyday men smile at me when I walk through town, I smile back. My man says he loves it that I'm such a confident person. Infact he says I'm the first woman he wanted after he had been divorced for 10 years because I was the first one that never whined, complained or gossiped. Plus the fact that I was just so alive and independant made him nuts about me.<BR/><BR/>Sure inside of my heart I wanted a man but was not going to settle for any man just for the sake of a relationship.<BR/><BR/>There are wonderful men out there, so be available for those that are worthy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com