tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post5162951086856839233..comments2023-07-03T05:28:29.391-04:00Comments on Dating Advice (Almost) Daily: She Changed Her Name--for This?Terryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-64999917884987406222008-07-09T02:24:00.000-04:002008-07-09T02:24:00.000-04:00Oh God sometimes women sacrifice more than it is n...Oh God sometimes women sacrifice more than it is necessary and ends up being hurt. Women should know that you have to love yourself enough to be afford to extend some love to others. When you have time you can visit www.tomydate.com and click on dating articles for more information.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-43788060340491447182008-07-02T13:08:00.000-04:002008-07-02T13:08:00.000-04:00Excellent point, Sassy. I should have considered t...Excellent point, Sassy. I should have considered that. While there are tons of married women neglecting themselves just because they think it's the right thing to do, there is no shortage of clinically depressed people in the world.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the reminder.Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-82164485941890339692008-07-01T15:25:00.000-04:002008-07-01T15:25:00.000-04:00I have another take on this. We never exactly know...I have another take on this. We never exactly know what's happening in someone's family. The man could be abusing her or she could be severly depressed or worse. She could be fearful to leave the marriage if she doesn't have any money or career. <BR/><BR/>While I agree that we should never let ourselves get into a position of letting ourselves go and walked all over, I also think we should remember that sometimes situations aren't as they seem.Sassyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13716110298862991605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-48023957749509538752008-07-01T08:58:00.000-04:002008-07-01T08:58:00.000-04:00Thanks for your perspective, Adam, especially the ...Thanks for your perspective, Adam, especially the bit about women becoming their husbands' mothers!Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-38078567372531862042008-07-01T05:25:00.000-04:002008-07-01T05:25:00.000-04:00Sounds like a classic case of martydom. Most guys ...Sounds like a classic case of martydom. <BR/><BR/>Most guys like the idea of being cared for but when a woman 'sacrifices' her looks (attractiveness) on behalf of the family she can become a second mother in his eyes.<BR/><BR/>For any woman reading this - take note. Never, ever let your looks go. A guy can intellectualise that you're the best thing since sliced bread, but his 'instincts' (what attracts him to you) are largely based upon how you look.<BR/><BR/>It's fine to care for your guy (whether you have kids or not), but be very careful you don't become his mother. Moms just aren't attractive in the way you'd want him to perceive you!<BR/><BR/>Best wishes,<BR/><BR/>Adam.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com