tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post4286350416561387001..comments2023-07-03T05:28:29.391-04:00Comments on Dating Advice (Almost) Daily: What's the Deal With This Guy?Terryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-29983462103875235492009-06-16T12:10:56.377-04:002009-06-16T12:10:56.377-04:00Hi Terry, How can we send you an email concerning ...Hi Terry, How can we send you an email concerning a relationship problem that one of your readers (me) is currently having?<br /><br />I cannot seem to find your email address or a link to send you a private email regarding for advice.<br /><br />Thanks in advance,<br />MichelleMichellehttp://twitter.com/ValleyGirl92064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-79326854384989933752009-06-15T15:35:50.216-04:002009-06-15T15:35:50.216-04:00Terry,
Initially when I read your reply, it felt ...Terry,<br /><br />Initially when I read your reply, it felt like some 'game' to be un-available etc, but when I come think of it, I feel you're 100% right on ! <br /><br />It's not her responsibility to figure the puzzle out, 'coz he ended it saying "there were no butterflies"... he's atleast got to say something about that area this time, before he asks you out ! <br /><br />May be if he still doesnt feel it, say things like "I like you, and I'm trying to figure if I'll have butterflies this time" or " I do feel butterflies for you now ".<br /><br />( It's not like he's saying I love you, here ! ) <br /><br />If he says he's still trying to figure it out, then it's clear indication the girl shouldn't waste her time, based on his figuring...as "butterflies" may not often happen that way ! <br /><br />But not saying anything about it, is still worse, and leaves lot of room for drama and unnecessary pining ! The guy shouldn't have to do that "AGAIN" to someone whose heart he broke earlier ! It's courtesy to convey what he feels,before he can ask you out so frequently ! <br /><br />Then again, I made 'friends' like these ( we din't date, but it started out as friends ), hanging out soo often ! It led to nowhere, only for me to discover an year later, the guys have their gf, but never tell me ( because they're on the verge of breaking-up etc ).<br /><br />So if you're thinking, what's wrong to be "Friends" with a guy you like, think again ! Friends are cool, when both sides feel platonic, otherwise it hurts someone very badly !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com