tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post4218958085790073026..comments2023-07-03T05:28:29.391-04:00Comments on Dating Advice (Almost) Daily: Loving a Married ManTerryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-14227888546700103002008-07-14T19:02:00.000-04:002008-07-14T19:02:00.000-04:00I was once the other woman. For almost 3 years. At...I was once the other woman. For almost 3 years. At first it was all about fun, then it turned emotional (for me-he said for him to,but I doubt it). He then actually told me he wanted to leave his wife, we made plans on how and when. He even had the nerve to save money and have me hold onto it!<BR/>You know what, he left! He admitted everything to her or I threatened to. (probably not good to invole her though) However, when he left it was the worse thing that could've happened. He resented me for breaking up his little comfortable home, and eating his cake too. He didn't treat me with respect anymore-I didn't even recognize this man. He started posting his ad on dating websites and soon started cheating on me too with his ex-wife.<BR/>We also worked together. Unfortunately for him he couldn't handle all the pressures and started falling behind at work. He was fired. The good thing is I broke it off with him for good 2 days before. So, I didn't have to deal with him for too long. It was either him or I that had to go from the workplace.<BR/>Its better to face the facts now and get out. There is no win situation here. I have learned my lesson and would never mess around like that again. There are just too many great men out there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-60349863196176984342008-07-12T14:30:00.000-04:002008-07-12T14:30:00.000-04:00Wow. Thanks for sharing this, Sassy. I hope it'll ...Wow. Thanks for sharing this, Sassy. I hope it'll make a difference in some lives.Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-16803396347994307042008-07-11T14:33:00.000-04:002008-07-11T14:33:00.000-04:00I agree with Teri. I was the "wife" of a man who w...I agree with Teri. I was the "wife" of a man who was cheating. It not only destroyed our marriage, it devestated my mother who had taken my then-husband in like a son, divided our friends, shattered what I thought was my life. <BR/><BR/>You need to fill the gap with YOU; learn how to love and entertain and enjoy yourself. You're a much better person who deserves someone who can give you all of him, not just nits and nats of his cheating time. Good luck to you.Sassyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13716110298862991605noreply@blogger.com