tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post1737887397639862770..comments2023-07-03T05:28:29.391-04:00Comments on Dating Advice (Almost) Daily: She Keeps Sabotaging Herself in Love and LifeTerryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00260512756626485548noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-90297436381988785372009-05-01T13:28:00.000-04:002009-05-01T13:28:00.000-04:00"Every guy tells me I play too many games. I do no..."Every guy tells me I play too many games. I do not seem to learn from past mistakes. I do the same things with every job I have. Funny, I have been fired from every job I ever had. And forget references, they do not exist."<br /><br />This was such an interesting post because on the one hand I could totally relate to sticking around with a relationship that isn't going anywhere in hopes that it will...but then there is the above quote that might give some more insight.<br /><br />Mostly in that you are self-reflecting anyway, so I would be curious what the games are? It could be you were told this by a less than kind individual that just wants to make everything about you; but DO you play games?<br /><br />Jobs aren't romantic relationships but they are relationships. I actually have learned a lot about myself and how I relate to others in part from my professional relationships. <br /><br />A good therapist is a great idea. If you had someone you trusted they would be more insightful of the details of each job loss or romantic relationship. <br /><br />Good luck. SamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-20824052841544556132009-04-30T11:42:00.000-04:002009-04-30T11:42:00.000-04:00I agree, Terry - what tremendous introspection and...I agree, Terry - what tremendous introspection and honesty for your reader to admit that she is at the heart of her problems, which have spilled into many areas of her life. The good news is, I believe, with professional help, she can be the one -- and is the only one -- who can change things for the better.<br /><br />Good luck, Answer Me!Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04712245590233116481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9378354.post-57496573751025860392009-04-29T17:38:00.000-04:002009-04-29T17:38:00.000-04:00Wow, this is horrible.
I am curious what this wom...Wow, this is horrible.<br /><br />I am curious what this woman means when she says she wants, "something more." Does she mean that none of her men want to have sex with her or that they don't want to marry her or what? At any rate, I am guessing that she has never been particularly sexy or these problems would not have existed when she was younger. I worry that if some kind of deep relationship is her goal she may have quality control issues with whatever man would go along with that. I'm all for trying to make the best of the situation but this woman is only bringing so much to the table and may have to ask herself some hard questions in the end.<br /><br />This is one of the reasons I distrust the Democratic party. They live in the fantasy that economic inequality is the only kind of inequality. I wouldn't wish this woman's 3+ decades of suffering on my worst enemy yet her innate nature led her straight into it. I hope she is able to effect a change in her life that leaves her more satisfied.Jokah Macphersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04185675633464395897noreply@blogger.com